the precious things

The Muscari is blooming.

The hundreds of volunteer people are sent to the striken area every day. The quake and tunami survivors need to clean their neighborhood up but it is hard to move ships,cars,mud,and everything soak in water which is very heavy. The volunteers were told they never allowed to use the word 'trash or debris" because those have been the victim's belongings which are valuables with memories.

I've read the article about children of the striken area. Some of them became to stick their mother and don't want to leave. Or start sucking their thumb again. The experts say it is return to the baby, the sign of mental disorder. They have uneasiness after the disaster.Then they give a sign "please,pay attention."

The important thing is "agree with them." If the daughter is sad because her doll was spept away by tunami,mother have to be with her and say "yes,the doll is gone.It's sad,isn't it?" Never say like "you have to get over it." something like that.

The experts also say "returning to baby is kind of natural reaction. There're children who controll their feelings and repress anxiety. That's a serious case. The adults have to watch their kids carefully and don't miss the sign from them."